Never. We never lose our loved ones. They accompany us; they dont disappear from our lives. We are merely in different rooms. For example, I cant see who is in the next carriage, but it contains people traveling in the same time as me, as you, as everyone. The fact that we cant speak to them or know whats going on in that other carriage is completely irrelevant. They are there. So what we call life is a train with many carriages. Sometimes were in one, sometimes were in another, and sometimes we cross between them, when we dream or allow ourselves to be swept away by the extraordinary.