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Storing up pain, nurturing your hurt, plotting revenge - all these punish you more than they do the backstabbers.
The underlying problem with many Backstabbers is a lack of self-esteem
By sending a brief memo to a colleague or a superior, you have a paper trail that Backstabber's can't erase.
Remember that Backstabbers are sneaky,slick,seductive, and sabotaging.
Backstabbers specialize in saying the wrong thing at the wrong time to the wrong person.
A sense of powerlessness fuels some backstabbers.
They put on a front that appears accommodating, loyal, and yes, even sacrificial. Then, without warning, they raise their knife, and by the time you see the glint of the blade, it's almost always too late.
Backstabbers operate out of insecurity, believing they have to have perfect order to eliminate any threat to their power.
In all likelihood, Backstabbers are quite pleasant and supportive on the surface. But that's a mask.
Backstabbers ooze anger.
Life would be so much easier if we didn't have to deal with men and women who make promises they have no intention of keeping.
One of the favorite pastimes of Backstabbers is recounting slights and grievances they've carried for years.
You know that you have been stabbed when you feel the deep pain of betrayal.
Backstabbing is nothing new. In biblical times,King David experienced the pain of betrayal.
I'll bet you would not list gossip,backstabbing or negativity as one of the desirable values you hold dear.
Backstabbing, gossiping,greed and power games are a sign of an unhealthy organization.
Bestfriends has 11 letters, but so does Backstabber.
I just think it's the wrong thing to do, and I think stabbing us in the back is wrong.
Their motto is : "Don't get mad, get even"
Backstabbing, by the way, is not to be confused with a minor slipup like canceling lunch at the last minute or neglecting to return a phone call.
Backstabbing occurs when you share a confidence with someone at church only to learn later that the person has told your story on the prayer chain.
Backstabbing occurs when a friend agrees with you when the tow of you are alone but later sides with your opponents in a social setting.
Backstabbing occurs when a coworker lies low on a project and then grabs credit when it's nearing completion.
Finally, never become a hypocrite by attacking other people personally if you wish to be able to protect yourself.
Although I'm proposing these two rules to strengthen your ability to deal with backstabbing,you're still going to have to protect yourself - you don't want to get stabbed in the front for your troubles.
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Trust is the key to happiness and the door to heartbreak. To be fully human and engaged in the world we must open ourselves up to others. We give a part of ourselves to every person we become intimate with. We take on a part of others, as well. This piece of ourselves never comes back. It is for the person who holds it to treasure and protect. It is also for them to change the character of that fragment, to devalue it, to reject it. We have all experienced this. Trust turns into pain as we are stabbed in the back by someone close to us. Or we are the betrayer; we choose to turn our back on friendship and seek our own gain at their expense. Yet even after betrayal, we hold that fragment still. That piece will stay with us, and shape us. Betrayer and betrayed alike. |


